Hi! I'm Dr. Carli Blau
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For more than a decade, I’ve had the privilege of sitting across from thousands of individuals and couples as they’ve navigated some of life’s most personal conversations. Together, we’ve explored relationships, intimacy, communication, confidence, identity, parenting, grief, resilience, and the many moments that shape who we become.
Throughout my career, I’ve earned advanced degrees in clinical social work, human sexuality, and education, specialized in sex therapy, relationship dynamics, perinatal mental health, and trauma-informed care, and built a thriving private practice dedicated to helping people create meaningful, lasting change.
But over time, something became impossible to ignore.
Every day, messages would arrive from people around the world asking for guidance, insight, or support. Many wanted therapy. Others simply wanted a different way of understanding themselves, their relationships, or the challenges they were facing.
I realized there were far more people seeking thoughtful conversations than I could ever reach one therapy session at a time.
That’s what inspired The Blau Method™ Collective.
Why I Created The Collective
Most people are navigating desire, relationships, sex, pain, infertility, identity, and their own reactions with almost no real education and even fewer places to talk about it.
The information exists. It lives in clinical training and research that rarely makes it to the people who actually need it.
People don’t always need another inspirational message. Sometimes they need someone to explain: What is happening to me? Why is this happening? And what can I actually do with that information?
That is what The Blau Method™ Collective is for.
One topic a month. Desire. Differentiation. Painful sex. Trying to conceive. Sexual confidence. Resentment. Emotional regulation. Identity after life changes you. I teach it properly, you get practical resources to see how it shows up in your own life, and then we talk about it—live, twice a month, with people who get it.
This isn’t therapy. It’s education with somewhere to go afterward.
You don’t have to be struggling with a given month’s topic to belong. Some months will feel like I’m talking directly to you. Others will teach you something about your partner, your friend, your child, or your own patterns that you didn’t know you needed. Over time, it becomes an ongoing education in being a human being.
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